What Do You Do?

What do you do when the pressure’s on?

When all you have left is really gone?

What do you do when life’s a mess?

When relationships are a game of chess?

When your heart is breaking what do you do?

When all seems lost and you haven’t a clue,

There’s so much more than this broken heart;

More than that which has torn us apart.

Where do you turn when all seems lost?

Is there any joy when you count the cost?

Will there come a time when all is said and done,

You can say, it’s all Him, and we’ve won!

Relationships are usually what bring us to our knees, and yet, God makes provision through His love. He lets us know that; “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another” Proverbs 27:17 NIV. This means we establish permission to speak the truth in love to one another, and have accountability.

When I tell you, what is so for me, then I need you to let me know if you sense that I am straying from my commitment. Love lets you know if there is a breach or other form of danger ahead; we don’t let each other “walk off a cliff.”

The reward is healthy relationship. We know this person has our best interest at heart. Yes, we will make mistakes, and yes there will be times of disagreement; but what joy when we persevere with one another in prayer, love, and understanding. Trust is built upon trust as we walk through trials together, and see God’s mighty hand at work.

Photo: IB Wira Dyatmika

Life isn’t intended to be lived in a vacuum, or solely in virtual reality. While I love our faith community as bloggers, I need face to face time invested with the people in my physical life. I encourage you not to shy away from godly accountability, as it builds maturity, which leads to loving obedience to Jesus.

A surrendered life walks in love, seeking God and His kingdom first; then loving and serving others. Transparency certainly has its uncomfortable moments, but it provides authenticity in relationship to God and those around us. Here is what Philippians 1:10 has to say; “so that you may be men of transparent character, and may be blameless, in preparation for the day of Christ,” (WNT). This is preparation for now and eternity.

From my heart to yours,

Jacquie ♥

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I am a writer and counselor, who embraces joy and holds tight to hope. I live with my husband Ken, of 44 years, and he is the love of my life. I enjoy inspirational and devotional writing, home decor, gardening, and being in community. My husband and I are missionaries to children in Washington State, and love the privilege of being with them.

7 thoughts on “What Do You Do?

  1. We do need accountability, people who can help us stay on the narrow path that leads to life. It’s easy to stray, even in little subtle ways. It’s a blessing to have people who can help us, and beneficial to pray for the right people to come into our lives. Thanks Jacquie for this encouraging reminder. 💕😊

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    1. Accountability can be a challenging message for those interested in doing things their way, or according to their feelings, but I see it as a lifeline. I agree, it is such a blessing to have these relationships with those who desire to see us grow in love and truth; relationship with the Lord, and His people. God bless you Dawn♥

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  2. God has blessed my life with beautiful, godly friendships. My favorite friendship verse is Ecclesiastes 4:12 “A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.” Thank you for sharing the wisdom God has given to you.


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